I am again reminded that life is so short. That loving those around you that are living now is a good thing. Cherishing those that are dear to you - it should be something you do consciously. Why put it off? Why shrug off the touchy-feely stuff? Tell your loved ones you love them. if you’ve wronged them… Tell them you’re sorry that you hurt them & that they do mean allot to you - just tell them you love them.
My cousin Warren (23) lost his live today. He lived in South Africa, Johannesburg in Buchleau. It’s one of the Northern Suburbs that was perceived as safer than downtown. But alas with the ever increasing violent crimes it was inevitable that I’d hear of news that someone I love would fall victim to the evil that is running wild in the country.
It was a break in. My cousin got shot 3 times, they were watching TV in different rooms. My Aunt got shot in the arm & I’m not sure what happened to my Uncle. They took their cellphones & their wallets. The sad fact is that this kind of thing happens every day in South Africa. I’m still waiting for news about my Uncle, I’m not sure where he was at the time.
Here I sit in Canada, removed but still connected… I’m on the internet writing a blog - getting the news through my cousin in New Zealand through Skype & telling my friends back in South Africa through facebook to please becareful & to be aware. Telling all those I hold dearly - that I love them, I miss them. I wish that the country wasn’t so violent - I wish that the evil would not win. I pray there is a solution to this madness. I pray for peace, for hope, for love, for prosperitoriy, & for the ability to forgive but never to forget.
In a world where people are dying to live, why do we continue to kill & hurt our fellow human beings? We all bleed, we all pain. Why have we gone so blind from each others suffering? Is there no capacity for kindness nor compassion? Where is our humanity? Why do we forsake those that are clearly suffering?
I see it as symptom of poverty, greed & short sightedness on the part of the killer/s. How does killing & hurting help you get a head in life? I just don’t get it. It wasn’t just my cousin that lost his life. His killer/s are dead too… in spirit & humanity. His mom & dad too have a part of their life. The whole country & the collective human consciousness suffers when someone is taken through crime.
We all suffer - we all bleed… if we just started loving each other just a little more - we could make an incremental change that could effect future generations. There’s that bible verse that goes something like - ‘what we sow now is what we reap in the future’. How have we forgotten this lesson?!